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THE CONSTRUCTIVE USE
OF CONFLICT
David W. Johnson
INTRODUCTION
There can be no doubt that the area of
conflict management and resolution is one of the most important areas in
social psychology. Many of the difficulties individuals have in working
and living together center around their destructive management or
interpersonal conflicts. Within our society there are serious problems
which may lead to a major armed conflict among ethnic groups and create
difficulties between men and women, the older generation and the youth of
our society, and advocates of the developing counterculture and protectors
of the status quo. War between countries is still an ever-present reality.
In this century wars have grown more and
more disastrous. World War I killed 12 million in battle. World War II cost
21 million lives in battle and 15 million more in air raids. One B-52 bomber
mow carries in a normal payload more explosive power than all the shells and
bombs of World War II. A third World War might kill all life aver large
areas and conceivably make the whole planet uninhabitable. Even during
nominal peace, tests and experiments with nuclear weapons have already
distributed in the atmosphere, in plants, and in the bodies of animals
radioactive iodine, strontium 90, and plutonium, imperiling present and
future generations. President John F. Kennedy warned:
Today every inhabitant of this planet must
contemplate the day when this planet may no longer be habitable. Every man,
woman, and child lives under a nuclear sword of Damocles, hanging by the
slenderest of threads, capable of being cut at any moment by accident, or
miscalculation, or madness.
In his Inaugural Address Kennedy spoke of
two powerful groups of nations, "both racing to alter that uncertain balance
of terror that stays the hand of mankind's final war." A similar theme was
expressed by a Harvard psychologist, Henry A. Murray (1960,p. 12)
A war that no one wants, an utterly
disgraceful end to man's long experiment on earth is a possibility we are
facing every day. Events are hanging by a thread, depending on an accident,
or some finger on a trigger, on a game of wits and tricks, or pride and
saving faces.
As a species, man is standing in a
maze of conflicts between nations, religions, ethnic groups, and
generations, any one of which could start World War III. For the last
twenty years or so man has had the technology and raw materials
literally to destroy every living thing upon the earth. This
technological capacity has made war and other forms of violence obsolete
as a means of resolving conflicts. Yet the basic answer to conflict
situations seems to be "kill" or "repress by force." If man
as a species is to survive, he must learn how to handle conflicts
constructively. Perhaps the most important question facing the world
today is whether or not man can do so.
Imagine yourself to be a visitor from
another planet, engaged in a field study of man. You are to make a
prediction about how successful man will be in handling future conflicts.
You survey his technological capacities for self-destruction, his stockpiles
of weapons: you look at his past and present behavior in conflict
situations, then you make a prediction about his survival. What would your
prediction be: Lorenz (1963,(?)49) says the following:
An unprejudiced observer from another
planet, looking upon man as he is today, in his hand the atom bomb, the
product of his intelligence, in his heart the aggressive drive
inherited from his anthropoid ancestors which this same intelligence
cannot control, would not prophesy long life for the species.
We approach a crossroads at which we
either educate ourselves, allies and enemies alike, in the nature of human
behavior, using this knowledge to promote future behavior, or we continue
along a road leading to the extinction of our species. And this, in the
evolutionary view, will be about as significant as the extinction of the
ichthyosaur.
THE NATURE OF CONFLICT
To understand the nature of conflicts it
is necessary to define what a conflict is, to specify its source, and to
evaluate its potential functional and dysfunctional consequences. A
conflict exists whenever incompatible activities occur (Deutsch
1969), and action which is incompatible with another action prevents,
obstructs, interferes with, injures, or in some way makes that action less
likely or less effective. The incompatible actions may originate in
one person (interpersonal), or two or more groups (inter-group). A contract
may arise from several different sources, some of which are (1) differences
in information, beliefs, values, interests, or desires, (2) a scarcity of
some resource such as money, power, time, space, or position, and (3)
rivalries in which one person or group competes with another (Deutsch 1969).
EFFECTIVENESS OF CURRENT CONFLICT
MANAGEMENT PROCEDURES
Most of the time, a person's alternation
is directed towards the failures to manage conflict constructively, not the
successes. A strike makes that newspapers, while a peaceful settlement
does not. A marriage that ends in divorce is often more
attention-attracting than one which continues. Yet with all the apparent
failures of constructive conflict management it should not be
forgotten that many of our present procedures of conflict management are
quite effective. Well over ten thousand labor-management agreements are made
each year in the private sector of our economy with only a small percentage
resulting in work stop-pages. This remarkable success ratio is often lost in
the headlines of a major labor dispute and its resulting strike. Most
interpersonal conflicts are managed successfully, and most
international conflicts are settled without violence. The
successful use of bargaining and negotiation as mechanisms of conflict
management in our society is widespread.
A variety of legal procedures, joint
problem-solving efforts, and the creation of third-party roles such as
mediator, arbitrator, and ombudsman exist to effectively manage conflict.
Yet there are failures. Without taking the obviously simpleminded position
that it is not now possible to handle conflict constructively, we want to
examine critically the current technology for conflict management.
CONSTRUCTIVE AND DESTRUCTIVE
CONFLICT
It is inevitable that you will become
involved in conflicts whenever you have a relationship with another person,
this may be a personal relationship of a relationship required by a social
system of which you are a part (such as a school or a job). A conflict-free
relationship is probably a sigh that you a really have no relationship at
all, not that you have a good relationship. The number of conflicts you and
the other person have will vary from relationship to relationship. But even
the most friendly relationships have times when conflicts appear.
Despite the inevitability of conflicts,
there seems to be a general feeling in our society that conflicts are bad
and should be avoided and that a good relationship is one in which there are
no conflict. Many discussions of conflict cast it in the role of causing
divorces, separations, psychological distress, violence, social disorder,
and even war. There is a growing recognition however, that it is the failure
of individuals to handle their conflicts in constructive ways which leads to
the destruction of relationship's, not the mere presence of conflict. It
is through the resolution of conflicts that most construct problem
solving is initiated, when conflict is handled constructively, it can
lead to increased closeness and a higher quality of relationship.
Many individuals seek out conflicts through such activities as competitive
sports and games, movies, plays, books and teasing. Conflicts are often of
personal value, leading to personal change, growth, creativeness and
curiosity.
Learning how to manage your conflicts
constructively may lead to increased self-confidence, greater
willingness to take risks in increasing the quality of your
relationships, and greater ability to handle stress and difficulty.
A superficial reading of many social
psychological theories which emphasize tension reduction, dissonance
reduction, good balance, and good form would seem to imply that the
psychological utopia would be a conflict-free existence
(Deutsch 1969). There are many social psychologists, however, who insist
that conflict is basically constructive. Howell and Smith (1956) state that
any good discussion among individuals is born in conflict and thrives
on conflict, bur it must be conflict of ideas rather than personalities.
Embank and Auer (1946) maintain that there is a need for differences of
opinion in any effective problem-solving. Harnack and Fest (1964) state
that
cooperation does not mean absence of conflict; it does mean
absence of conflict to block individuals and the vigorous presence of
conflict intended to explore ideas. Cooley (1918) states that the
more one thinks of it, the more he will see that conflict and cooperation
are not separable things, but phases of one process which always involves
something of both. Edward Ross (1920) stated that the good
side of opposition is that is stimulates (How about the third of
the opposite? JT). Simmel (1955) notes several positive functions of
conflict (1) it tends to create order within the group by promotion
structure, that is, some form of organized hierarchy, (2) at acts as a
cohesive agent upon the group, (3) it may establish communication where
before there was none, and (4) it may be an indication of group stability
since the more intimate and secure the group, the more intense the conflict
and the greater its frequency. Pettelle (1964) states that the proper
function of conflict in a discussion is to encourage inquiry, to promote
objectivity, and to sharpen analysis. It also stimulates interest and
sincere and is a sign that interest and concern exist in the relationship.
Deutsch (1971) states that his major assumption is that conflict is
potentially of personal and social value.
The point of balance is very delicate
between conflict that is managed so that it produces growth and conflict
that is managed so that it produces disruption and incapacitation-Conflict
in a social system which is handled destructively can lead to the
destruction of the system, the absence of conflict in a social system can
lead to stagnation.
Humanistic social psychologists believe
that conflict is a natural and desirable part of any relationship. If one is
involved with another person and concerned about the growth of the
relationship conflicts are probably inevitable. Conflict is an inherent
element in almost all social interactions. Simmell (1957, p. 195) for
example, states: An absolutely... harmonious group...not only is empirically
un-real, it could show no real life process. The society of saints which
Dante sees in the Rose on Paradise may be like such a group, but it is
without any change and development; whereas the holy assembly of Christ
Fathers in Raphael's Disputa shows, it not actual conflict, at least a
considerable differentiation of moods and direction of thought, whence flow
all the vitality and the really organic structure of that group.
Conflict is a natural part of being
alive and functioning in an environment which consists of other individuals.
Being involved with the environment,
society, other persons, and oneself provides one with continuing sources of
conflict which must be managed effectively in order to become an actualized,
fulfilled, and joyful person.
There are three
approaches for differentiating between a constructive and a
destructive conflict. The first two involve criteria by which
the outcomes of a conflict can be judged to be constructive or destructive.
Thus Deutsch (1971) states that a conflict as productive
consequences if the participants all are satisfied with their outcomes and
feel that they have gained as a result of the conflict; a
conflict has destructive consequences it the participants are dissatisfied
with their outcomes and feel that they have lost as a result of the
conflict; finally, a conflict whose outcomes are
satisfying to all of the participants will be more constructive than one
which is satisfying to some and dissatisfying to others. Deutsch's
approach to declining constructive and destructive conflicts is to
focus upon the psychological state of the participants after the conflict is
resolved. Another approach is to specify criteria by which
the outcomes of conflict can be labeled constructive or
destructive, thus, if a conflict resulted in increased commitment to
a relationship, in higher self-esteem by the participants, in a closer,
more loving relationship, or in greater efficiency in work, the conflict
is defined as constructive, while if the conflict resulted in disruption,
alienation, separation, and decreased efficiency, it would be defined as
destructive. The third approach to determining
the constructiveness or destructiveness of a conflict to apply criteria to
the process of handling the conflict before the outcomes are known. Thus,
when a conflict becomes a cooperative problem-solving situation
characterized by mutual understanding, accurate and complete communication
and a trusting attitude, the conflict is defined as belong constructive,
when a conflict becomes a win-lose situation characterized by
misperceptions, inaccurate and incomplete communication, and distrustful
attitudes, the conflict is defined as being destructive.
The Fifth Achievement
Robert R. Blake and
Jane Srygley Mouton
A great new challenge to the
American way of conducting its national life is taking shape. Conformity
with older patterns is breaking down. Yet creative definitions of new
patterns are not forthcoming, or at best are coming at a snail's pace.
Unless the challenge of finding new patterns that can serve to strengthen
society is successfully met, some of the nation's most cherished human
values may very well be sacrificed. If we can meet it, however, our deeply
embedded beliefs as to the role of men in society may not only be reinforced
but may find even richer and more extensive applications in the society of
tomorrow.
What is this challenge? We widely
acknowledge the objective of an open and free society based on individual
responsibility and self-regulated participation by all in the conduct of
national life. That men will differ in the ways they think and act is
accepted as both inevitable and desirable. Indeed, this is one hallmark of
an open society. Differences are intrinsically valuable. They provide the
rich possibility that alternatives and options will be discovered for better
and poorer ways of responding to any particular situation. Preserving the
privilege of having and expressing differences increases our chances of
finding "best" solutions to the many dilemmas that arise in living. They
also add the spice of variety and give zest to human pursuits.
When it is possible for a man to make a
choice form among several solutions, and when he can make this choice
without infringing upon another man's freedom or requiring his cooperation,
there is genuine autonomy. This is real freedom. When it is possible for a
man to make a choice form among several solutions, and when he can make this
choice without infringing upon another man's freedom or requiring his
cooperation, there is genuine autonomy. This is real freedom.
When it is possible for a man to make a
choice form among several solutions, and when he can make this choice
without infringing upon another man's freedom or requiring his cooperation,
there is genuine autonomy. This is real freedom.
But in many situations not every man can
have his own personal solution. When cooperation and coordination are
required in conducting national life--in government, business, the
university, agencies of the community, the home, and so on --- differences
that arise must find reconciliation. A solution must be agreed upon and
embraced which can provide a pattern to which those involved are prepared to
conform their behavior. Yet efforts to reconcile differences in order to
achieve consensus-based patterns of conduct often only serve to promote
difficulties. When disagreements as to sound bases for action can be
successfully resolved, freedom can be retained and necessary solutions
implemented. Dealing with the many and varied misunderstandings that are
inevitable in a society dedicated to preserving the privilege of having and
expressing differences is the challenge. As individuals, we find this hard
to do. As members of organized groups, we appear to find it even more
difficult.
FOUR CLASSICAL SOLUTIONS FOR RESOLVING
CONFLICTS
In the conduct of society there are at
least four major and different kinds of formal, structural arrangements
which we rely on for resolving differences. They are the scientific method,
politics, law, with its associated police powers; and organizational
hierarchy.
Of undisputed value in finding the
objective solution to which agreement can readily be given are the methods
of science. A well-designed experiment confirms which of several
alternatives is the most valid basis of explanation while simultaneously
demonstrating the unacceptability of the remaining explanation.
Our political mechanisms are based on the
one-man-one-vote approach to problem solving. This provides for the
resolution of differences according to a weighting approach, and the basis
is usually that the majority prevail. By this means, decisions can be made
and actions taken even though differences may remain. Simply being outvoted,
however, does not aid those on the losing side in changing their
intellectual and emotional attitudes. While it ensures that a solution is
chosen, the fact that it is often on a win-lose or a compromise basis may
pose further problems when those who are outvoted resolve to be the winners
of the fuller. Often the underlying disagreements are deepened.
Legal mechanisms apply only in resolving
differences when questions of law are involved and other means of reaching
agreement usually have met with failure With application of associated
police powers, the use of force is available to back up legal mechanisms
when law is violated. But this constitutes a far more severe solution to the
problem. The ultimate failure of law which invites the use of military power
is in effect a court of last resort.
Within society's formal institutions such
as business, government, education, and the family organizational hierarchy,
or rank, can and does permit the resolution of differences. The premise is
that when a disagreement arises between any two persons of differing rank,
the one of higher rank can impose a solution unilaterally based on his
position. In the exercise of authority, suppression may also sacrifice the
validity of a solution, since there is no intrinsic basis of truth in the
idea that simply because a man is the boss of other men he is ordained with
an inherent wisdom. While this arrangement provides a basis for avoiding
indecision and impasse, it may and often does have the undesirable
consequence of sacrificing the support of those to whom it is applied for
the solution of the problem, to say nothing of its adverse effects on future
creativity.
These classical solutions to dealing with
differences--science, politics, law and hierarchy--represent real progress
in learning to conduct the national life. Where it can be applied,
scientific method provides a close to ideal basis for resolving differences.
That politics, courts of justice, and organizational hierarchy, though more
limited, are necessary is indisputable. But that they are being questioned
and increasingly rejected is also indisputable. Even if they were not, none
of these alone nor all of them together provide a sound and sufficient basis
for the development of a truly problem-solving society.
WHAT IS THE FIFTH ACHIEVEMENT
There is another essential ingredient. It
is sharply increased understanding by every man of the roots of
conflict and the human skills of gaining the resolution of
differences. The acquisition of such insight and skill by every man could
provide a social foundation for reaching firm and sound understandings on a
direct man-to-man basis of the inevitable disagreements that arise in
conducting the national life. This kind of deepened skill in the direct
resolution of differences could do much to provide a realistic prospect that
the antagonisms, cleavages, or injustices real and imagined in society today
can be reduced if not eliminated. It offers the promise that
the sicknesses of alienation and apathy, the destructive aggressions, and
the organization-man mentality can be healed.
The Fifth Achievement, then, is in the
establishments of a problem-solving society where differences among men are
subject to resolution through insights that permit protagonists themselves
to identify and implement solutions to their differences upon the basis of
committed agreement. That men ultimately will be able to work out,
face to face, their differences is a hoped-for achievement of the
future. Extending their capacity to do so could reduce the number of
problems brought before the bench or dealt with through hierarchy. At the
same time, scientific and political processes could be strengthened if
progress were made in this direction. Even more important, it could perhaps
lead to the resolution of many conflicts on a local level that block the
development of a creative and committed problem-solving community. Success
in meeting this challenge in the period ahead is perhaps the surest way to
preserve and strengthen the values of a free society while protecting and
even strengthening the privilege of having and expressing differences.
HOW TO INCREASE SKILL IN MANAGING
CONFLICT
Why do men rely on these other four
approaches to conflict settlement while placing lower value on the
resolution of differences in a direct, man-to-man way? One explanation for
this might be that they do not hold in concert a conceptual basis for
analyzing situations of disagreement and their causes. It should be said
that conceptual understanding, while necessary for strengthening behavior,
is clearly not in itself a sufficient basis for learning the skills of sound
resolution of conflict. Personal entrapment from self-deception about one's
motivations is too great. Insensitivity about one's behavior and the
reactions of others to it is too extensive. To connect a conceptual analysis
to one's own behavior and conduct in ways that permit insight and change
seems to require sometime more in the way of personal learning.
Classroom learning methodologies that
could enable men to gain insights regarding conflict and acquire skills for
resolving it seem to be impoverished. To aid men in acquiring both the
conceptual understanding for managing conflict and the skills to see their
own reactions in situations to conflict, man-to-man feedback seems to be an
essential condition. A variety of situations involving laboratory learning
that permit this have been designed (Boch and Wyden 1969. Blake and Mouton
1968; Bradlord, Gibb, and Benne 1964; Schein and Bennis 1965). They set the
stage for men to learn to face their differences and find creative and valid
solutions to their problems.
Success in mastering this Fifth
Achievement will undoubtedly require reconnection of the classroom in ways
that permit the study of conflict as a set of concepts and the
giving and receiving of feedback in ways that enable men to see how to
strengthen their own capacities and skills for coping with it directly.
CONCEPTUAL ANALYSIS OF CONFLICT
This paper concentrates upon a first step
toward this Fifth Achievement by presenting a conceptual basic for analyzing
situations of conflict. The Conflict Grid [Figure
in the text] is a
way of identifying basic assumptions when men act in situations where
differences are present, whether disagreement is openly expressed or
silently present (Blake and Mouton 1964; Blake, Shepard, and Mouton 1964)
Whenever a man meets a situation of
conflict, he has at least two basic considerations in mind. One of these is
the people with whom he is in disagreement. Another is production
of results, or getting a resolution to the disagreement. It is the
amount and kind of emphasis he place on various combinations of each of
these elements that determine his thinking in dealing with conflict.
Basis attitudes toward people and
toward results are visualized on nine point scales. These form the Grid
in the Figure. The nine-point scale representing concern for producing a
result provides the horizontal axis for the Grid. The phrase "concern for"
does not show results produced but rather denotes the degree of emphasis in
his thinking that the man places on getting results. The 1 end represents
low concern, and the 9 represents the highest possible concern. The same
applies on the vertical or concern-for-people axis. Considering that
interactions of these two scales, there are 81 possible positions. Each
describes an intersection between the two dimensions.
The following pages discuss strategies of
managing conflict according to the five basic theories -- those appearing at
the four corners and the center of the figure. When these basic styles are
understood, and can predict for each how a man operating under that style is
likely to handle conflict. There are eight additional important theories
composed from various mixtures of these five, but basic issues of conflict
resolution can be seen in dealing with these "pure" theories.
No one style is exclusively characteristic
of one man in comparison with another, although one style may be dominant in
a man's actions. Furthermore, even though one may be dominant for a time, it
may be abandoned and replaced by another when the first has been ineffective
in achieving resolution.
What are some of the ways of dealing with
conflict?
Conflict can be controlled by overpowering
it and suppressing one's adversary (9,1 in the lower right corner of the
Grid). An ultimate expression of this is in the extremes of police power and
military action. Extracting compliance by authority-obedience is possible
when rank is present. The conflict can be cut off and suppressed in this
way. "Yours not to question why!" When rank is not alias, a win-lose basis
expresses the same set of assumptions. Winning for one's own position
predominates over seeking valid solution.
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Another strategy is to smooth conflict
by cajolery, by letting a man know that with a little patience he will find
that all is right (1,9 in the upper left corner).
The assumption of sweetness and lift often leads to resolution by people's
retracting from previously held positions, preferring personal acceptance to
solution validity. This can promote accord and harmony, but it sacrifices
conviction and insight into differences, while decreasing to likelihood of
achieving valid solutions. Staying out of situations that provoke
controversy or turning away topics that promote disagreement represents a
set of assumptions about how to live in a conflict-free way (,1 in the lower
left corner). Then one need not be stirred up even though the issue may need
resolution. A Man can remain composed if he does not let himself be drawn
into controversy; he avoids it by remaining neutral. This kind of "see
no disagreement, hear no disagreement, and speak no disagreement" represents
a withdrawal from social responsibility in a world where the resolution of
differences is key to finding sound solution. It is the ultimate in
alienation.
A third set of assumptions leads to
a middle-of-the-road solution to differences through accommodation and
adjustment. Disagreement is settled through bargaining a compromise solution
(5,5). The assumptions underlying compromising at one's convictions are at
the root of this approach. It means agreeing so as to be agreeable, even to
sacrificing sound action" settling for what you can get rather than working
to get what is sound in the light of the best available facts and data.
The mental attitude deigned the
one-man-one-vote approach often leads to the endorsement of positions
calculated to get majority support even though this means giving up a
solution of deeper validity. The same assumptions often prevail behind the
scenes in out-of-court settlements.
Outside the sphere of industrial
management, solutions to major political and international problems of
recent years provide classic examples of 5,5 splitting. One is the "separate
but equal" approach to solving what is seen as the race problem. The
cessation of hostilities in Korea by the establishment of the thirty-eighth
parallel as a line of demarcation between North and South in the early
Fifties is another. This set a precedent for setting up the "Demilitarized
Zone" between North and South
Vietnam. The Berlin Wall is probably the
most significant symbol of the East-West split. The 5,5 attitude is
reflected daily by news reporters and commentators who quote 'unidentified
but high-level sources' or hide their sources by attributing their facts
merely to "usually reliable sources."
Under a 9,9 approach, disagreement
is valued as an inevitable result of the fact that strong-minded people have
convictions about what is right. A man says, "Nothing is sacrosanct. What
are the facts? What are the causes" What are the conclusions?" Reservations
and emotions that interrupt agreement based on logic and data are confronted
through candid discussion of them directly with the person involved in the
disagreement. Insight and resolution are possible but involve maturity and
real human skill. This approach may be time-consuming in the short run but
time-conserving over the long tern. It permits men to disagree, to work out
their disagreements in the light of facts and ultimately to understand one
another. Such problem-soling constructiveness in conflict situations id the
fundamental basis for realizing the Fifth Achievement.
CONFLICT, CONFORMITY, AND CREATIVE PROBLEM
SOLVING
How does effective conflict management
interrelate with other social processes of seemingly equal or greater
significance in strengthening society? Indeed, it might be maintained that
the challenge to society seen today is in nonconformity with its norms,
rather than in faulty management of conflict.
In what ways are conflict and conformity
interdependent (Blake and Mouton 1961)? men in everyday life do conform to
the expectations of others and the exceptions of others and the patterns of
their institutions. These readiness to conform reduces conflict and is what
permits regularity, order, and predictability. To adhere to common norms
provides a basis for organized effort. Form conformity with conventionalized
social and organizational practices can come a sense of identification,
belonging and esprit de corps. On the other hand, failure to conform may
stir conflict with one's colleagues and associates so that the nonconformist
is rejected indeed, anxiety about rejection can be so overwhelming that for
many conformity becomes an end in itself in itself rather than a means to
cooperation through interdependence. Under these circumstances the
capacity to challenge outmoded traditions, precedents, and past practices is
lost. With sound ways of approaching and resolving conflict, outmoded
patterns can successfully be challenged and upgraded by replacement of them
with agreements which themselves can promote problem solving and creativity.
In this way, finding new and better ways to accomplish personal,
organizational, national, and perhaps even international objectives becomes
possible.
Just stimulating people to challenge and
contest status quo conformities, however, is likely to do little more than
provoke disagreement and controversy, increase polarization and ultimately
end in win-lose, impasse, compromise, or chaos. Yet the status quo
requirements must continuously be challenged in a problem-solving and
creative way, not in a manner that pits man against man for see who can win
or, even worse, in a way that ends in anarchy.
The Conflict Grid is useful in seeing the
more subtle connections among conflict and conformity and creative problem
solving. Conformity to the 9,1 authority-obedience demands that are involved
in hierarchical rank is exemplified by the boss, teacher, or parent who
gives the orders to subordinates., students, or children who are expected to
obey. The Conflict Grid is useful in seeing the more subtle connections
among conflict and conformity and creative problem solving. Conformity to
the 9,1 authority-obedience demands that are involved in hierarchical rank
is exemplified by the boss, teacher, or parent who gives the orders to
subordinates., students, or children who are expected to obey. The exercise
of initiative which produces differences is equivalent to insubordination.
Conformity under 9,1 may produce the protocol of surface compliance, but the
frustrations of those who are suppressed are often evident. Ways of striking
back against the boss, teacher, or parent appear. Such acts may be open ones
of resistance and rebellion or disguised ones of sabotage cheating or giving
agreement without following through. Each of these in a certain sense
involves reverse creativity, where ingenuity is exercised in attacking or
"beating" the system. It is creativity in resentment of the system, not in
support of it.
In another type of conformity, the rules
of relationship are, "Don't say anything if you can't say something nice"
(1,9). Togetherness, social intimacy, and warmth engendered by yielding
one's convictions in the interests of personal acceptance are certainly
objectionable solutions in a society where having and expressing differences
is relied on as the basis for finding sound courses of action. It can
produce a quorum of agreement but smother creative problem solving in
sweetness and love. The kind of disagreement that might provoke resentment
is avoided. The opportunity for creative problem solving to emerge is
absent.
Another kind of conformity relates to
adhering to the form and not to the substance of life. Here people conform
by going through the motions expected of them, tread milling through the
days, months, and years (1,1). In this way, survival is accomplished by
being visible without being seen.
Organization-man conformity (5,5) entails
positively embracing the status quo with minimum regard for the soundless of
status quo requirements, Yet, even here, as new problems arise, differences
appear and disagreements become evident . There are several kind of 5,5
actions that of shallow estimation may give the appearance of approaching
problems from an altered, fresh, and original point of view. In another type
of conformity, the rules of relationship are, "Don't say anything if you
can't say something nice" (1,9). Togetherness, social intimacy, and warmth
engendered by yielding one's convictions in the interests of personal
acceptance are certainly objectionable solutions in a society where having
and expressing differences is relied on as the basis for finding sound
courses of action. It can produce a quorum of agreement but smother creative
problem solving in sweetness and love. The kind of disagreement that might
provoke resentment is avoided. The opportunity for creative problem solving
to emerge is absent.
Another kind of conformity relates to
adhering to the form and not to the substance of life. Here people conform
by going through the motions expected of them, treadmilling through the
days, months, and years (1,1). In this way, survival is accomplished by
being visible without being seem.
Organization-man conformity (5,5) entails
positively embracing the status quo with minimum regard for the soundless of
status quo requirements, Yet, even here, as new problems arise, differences
appear and disagreements become evident . There are several kind of 5,5
actions that of shallow estimation may give the appearance of approaching
problems from an altered, fresh, and original point of view.
Pseudo-creativity may be seen when new approaches, even though they
constitute only small departures from the outmoded past, are recommended on
the basis of their having been tried elsewhere. Under these circumstances a
man is forwarding actions taken by others rather than promoting examination
of actions on the basis of his own convictions. In this way, he can suggest,
while avoiding the challenge of rejection of his own convictions. Deeper
examination of 5,5 behavior leads to the conclusion that imitation rather
that innovation is the rule.
In other instances, solutions which are
proposed as compromise positions can give the impression of "flexibility' in
thought. When adjustment and accommodation, backing and filling, twisting
and turning, shifting and adapting take place in the spirit of compromise,
the motivation behind them is usually to avoid interpersonal emotions
resulting from confrontation. Behaving in this manner is a reaction to
disagreement, and it mans that personal validity is being eroded.
Flexibility is a highly valued component
in mature and effective behavior. But is it not contradictory to advocate
flexibility on the one hand and to forewarn against compromise on the other?
This question is important to clarify. Flexibility is a highly valued
component in mature and effective behavior. But is it not contradictory to
advocate flexibility on the one hand and to forewarn against compromise on
the other? This question is important to clarify.
Flexibility calls for deliberate
examination of options and alternatives. It means having back-up tactics
that permit swift resolution of unforeseen circumstances, a climate that
permits people to move back and forth and in and out from one situation to
another, but based on facts, data, and logic of the situation as it unfolds.
Flexibility calls for deliberate examination of options and alternatives. It
means having back-up tactics that permit swift resolution of unforeseen
circumstances, a climate that permits people to move back and forth and in
and out from one situation to another, but based on facts, data, and logic
of the situation as it unfolds. These are the characteristics of creative
problem solving that permit gains to be made as opportunities arrive, that
permit opportunities to be created, threats to be anticipated, and risks
that result when people fail to react to be reduced.
Thus there are actions to adjust a
difference to keep peace and actions to adjust to altered circumstances for
better results. It is most important to distinguish between the two kinds,
Flexibility for better results is likely to have a stamp of 9,9 an it,
'flexibility' to keep peace by avoiding clash of personalities is in the 5,5
area. One is intervening and promotes creativity. The other leads to the
perpetuation of the organization-man mentality of status guo rigidities.
In the final analysis, conformity is to be
valued. The problem is to ensure that the thinking of men conforms with
sound purposes and premises. Conformity which means adherence to premise of
human logic so that decisions reached are furthering growth capacity in
sound and fundamental ways is what every individual might be expected to
want. It is what man should want in the underpinnings of his daily
interactions. It is conformity it this level that promotes the pursuit of
creative and innovative solutions. Only when the values of a nation
stimulate experimentation and promote a truly constructive attitude toward
discover and innovation is the full potential from creative efforts
available as a source of thrust for replacing outmoded status quo
conformities with more problem-solving requirements (9,9).
But a 9,9 foundation of interdependence
can build a strong basis for an open, problem-solving society in which men
can have and express differences and yet be interrelated in ways that
promote the mutual respect, common goals, and trust and understanding they
must have to achieve results in ways that lead to personal gratification and
maturity.
WHAT MEN WANT -- TRAN NATIONALLY
Though varying widely in their ways of
actually dealing with conflict, studies show that leaders in the United
States, Great Britain, the Middle and Far East all indicate that they would
prefer the 9,9 approach of open confrontation as the soundest way
of managing situations of conflict, particularly under examination (Mouton
and Blake 1970). Though extremely difficult, it appears to be the soundest
of several possible choices. This is not to imply that every decision should
be made by a leader through calling a meeting or obtaining team agreement.
Nor for a crisis situation does it imply that a leader should withhold
exercising direction. But a 9,9 foundation of interdependence can build a
strong basis for an open, problem-solving society in which men can have and
express differences and yet be interrelated in ways that promote the mutual
respect, common goals, and trust and understanding they must have to achieve
results in ways that lead to personal gratification and maturity.
POSSIBILITIES OF THE FIFTH ACHIEVEMENT FOR
STRENGTHENING SOCIETY
This challenge to America, the need for
men to learn to confront outmoded status quo requirements and to manage to
resultant conflict in such ways as to promote creative problem solving,
promises much for the decades ahead, if we can meet and master it.
Consider for a moment the possibility of
success in mastering this Fifth Achievement. What might it mean?
1. Enriched family life rather than the
steady rise in the divorce rate.
2. Sounder child rearing evidenced in
teenage youngster capable of expression and action in dealing in a problem -
solving rather than a protest way with adults and the institutions of
society who are capable of interacting in an equally sound way.
3. The conversion of academic environments
from subject-oriented learning centers to ones that expand the capacity of
individuals for contributing creatively to the evolving character of
society.
4. The betterment of communities in ways
that more fully serve human wants.
5. The more rapid integration of
minorities into a more just society, with the reduction and eventual
elimination of disenfranchised, alienated (ooooo?).
6. Fuller and more creative use of human
energies in conducting the organizations that serve society.
7. A greater readiness to support and
utilize science for approaching problems when evidence, facts, and data come
to have an ever greater value as the bases for gaining insight.
8. A strengthening of politics by
readiness to advocate positions on the basis of statesmanlike convictions
rather than to adopt positions for political expediency.
9. Reliance on knowledge rather than rank
in the resolution of differences and disagreements in organization
situations.
10. A stronger basis for mind-meeting
agreements rather than resorting to legal actions to force a resolution of
disputes.
If erosion of social institutions not mot
already become too great, all of these aims can perhaps be forwarded over
time by our classical institutions for sitting conflicts. But surely men
capable of resolving their conflicts directly would forward human progress
with a dramatic thrust -- and on a far more fundamental and therefore
enduring basis.
If this Fifth Achievement is to be
realized, it is likely that greater use of the behavioral sciences may well
lie the key to a more rewarding and progressive society in which men can
share and evaluate their differences, learn from them, and use conflict as a
stepping stone to the greater progress that is possible when differences can
be resolve in a direct, fact-to-face way.
Will this challenge be met, or will the
cherished freedom of having and expressing differences be sacrificed?
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